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- Woman Says Husband Is Being 'Gaslit' by His 'Extremely Nosy' Mom, Who Is Constantly Crossing Boundaries on Her Visits</p>
<p>Virginia ChamleeJune 28, 2025 at 9:00 PM</p>
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<p>A woman who recently gave birth says her mother-in-law is gaslighting her husband and being "extremely nosy"</p>
<p>In an anonymous Reddit post, she writes that her mother-in-law was insensitive during her hospital stay — and then tried to stay with the couple once she went home</p>
<p>Now, she's thinking about going no-contact with her in-laws</p>
<p>A woman says her husband is being "gaslit" by his "extremely nosy" mother — and she's had enough.</p>
<p>In a post shared to Reddit, the anonymous woman writes that her mother-in-law "doesn't care two hoots about respecting boundaries," and often eats food off her son's plate, lies down in bed with him with their legs touching, and keeps her toothbrush in the couple's toothbrush holder when she comes to visit.</p>
<p>The mother-in-law also criticizes the Reddit user's cooking skills and decorating choices — only to start "crying" when the poster "very politely" asks her to stop.</p>
<p>"I had come to terms with the fact that she's a manipulative and stubborn gaslighter," she writes.</p>
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<p>But things changed after the woman's recent pregnancy, which was "complicated" by a rough delivery.</p>
<p>"I developed paralytic ileus after delivery. My mother, my (pregnant) sister were there for me throughout the pregnancy and the hospital stay and my brother was there on phone throughout to uplift my morale," she writes, noting that they helped her deal with doctors and postpartum "blues."</p>
<p>While her family provided her with "support, love, and endless care" throughout the process, her mother-in-law and husband only complained.</p>
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<p>"She and her son would only talk of food and how the hospital restaurant doesn't have good tasting food," she writes, "and she would prepare food at home and get it daily for [my husband] and they would gorge on food while I would be lying in bed witn an RT tube down my nose and multiple IV lines."</p>
<p>"She would talk to her relatives on phone shouting at top voice about how I have 'gas' due to poor eating habits and unnecessarily being kept there," she continues. "Also, she was extremely uncouth and rough with [my baby], shaking him so much while soothing him. I was sooooo scared everytime she lifted him."</p>
<p>After she got home from the hospital, the mother-in-law asked to stay with the couple. The poster turned down the offer, only to be inundated with calls and texts asking to see the baby. The mother-in-law also told her son "not to bother about baby duties," because "he has to go to [the] office and needs rest."</p>
<p>"Basically she wanted me to break down so that she would swoop in," the woman writes.</p>
<p>On top of that, the poster's mother-in-law and sister-in-laws have been guilt-tripping her about her breastfeeding choices.</p>
<p>Now, she wants to go no-contact with her in-laws, but is "apprehensive" that her husband is "not thinking straight."</p>
<p>Reddit commenters weighed in on the situation, with many telling the woman she needs to distance herself from her husband's family — and maybe even him.</p>
<p>"This is where you tell hubby he needs therapy or a divorce lawyer. His choice," one commenter wrote.</p>
<p>"Girl you need to stand up for yourself. Firm, calm, firm. This is YOUR baby," another added.</p>
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